this winter, get into shape for the ladies. Tone up your body, get thise abs, and build up that cardio so you can last longer when fucking those hot babes. read more

There is a cool little game for spicing up your long-term or fuck-buddy relationships.

Here's how you play:

Both you and your girlfriend get 20 pieces of paper and make 20 different cards. Each card has one idea on it: You write down things you would like her to do, and she does the same with stuff she wants you to do.

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This time I want to talk about a wonderful opportunity to meet a large number of hot girls. I think it's one of the easiest places to pick up women — and by developing a little bit of skill, you'll have literally no competition.

Most guys go to clubs only to find rejection from the girls and great competition from the other men. But h read more

In a club, it's more a game of keeping a girl isolated from other guys than it is actually picking them up.

When this happens, it's best to get rid of the obstacle quickly and keep your girl isolated with you.

Sometimes it can be enough just to say "Excuse me, buddy, we were having a conversation here..." then turning your back to the gu read more

I've got a question for you…

Have you ever been shot down by a woman? – be honest. I, for example, have been rejected more times than I'd like to admit.

For the collective average male, rejection plain sucks. There's nothing fun about it.

But a select group of ladies' men actually enjoy being rejected.

You might be thinking, “Sound read more

Attraction explained the easy way read more

The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step formula, followed by a number of laws which govern it’s use for maximum effect.

It is designed to provide a smooth escalation, containing no significant jumps that may cause a woman to object. At the same time, the DEL contains no extraneous steps which are non-essential to the seduction process. read more

Here's my post on how to get laid in the next month or two. This post does not maximize your chances of "getting really good at pickup" - in fact, it does the opposite. I'm going to try to cut out as much "practice time" from you as possible, so you're going to miss valuable opportunities to work on facets of your game. I'm going to try to read more

I'm about to reveal a little-known secret of human persuasion that can induce the woman to feel complete trust for you, and have sex with you... even if it's the very first date.

You see, for a woman to have sex with a guy, she must not only be attracted to him, but she must also trust him. Look at it like this:

1. Trust Without Attraction read more

I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me for dating advice on how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.

I thought I'd devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is VITAL to understand if you're wondering how to behave around a woman you've just met.

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