The eyes are the window to the soul. They will always betray what a person is thinking, if you’re deft enough to pay attention to them.

I’m going to share some secrets about eye contact with you that is going to help you meet women like crazy. I hope you’re ready for them, because I’m really spilling the beans here.

Are you ready for it?

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I’ve been getting a lot of questions from readers about profiles.

Everyone seems to want to know *how* to set up their profile in the best way to get more success.

Well, I have some SHOCKING news for you.

But before I get to it, I wanted to tell you a quick little story of what happened to me today.

Its about 5 p.m. I go outside to the read more

I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me for dating advice on how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.

I thought I'd devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is VITAL to understand if you're wondering how to behave around a woman you've just met.

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I'm going to reveal an important comfort-building technique I call "Boyfriending." In a nutshell, there's something you can do that's usually done ONLY by a woman's boyfriend.

If you do it too, it's a way of getting under a woman's radar and making her comfortable enough around you so that she'll be receptive to sex without making you read more

Here's my post on how to get laid in the next month or two. This post does not maximize your chances of "getting really good at pickup" - in fact, it does the opposite. I'm going to try to cut out as much "practice time" from you as possible, so you're going to miss valuable opportunities to work on facets of your game. I'm going to try to read more

When I started going out sarging, my biggest dream was to be able to pull the hottest girls from the club home. For years, my game was focused on the club environment. I learned millions of dirty little tricks to thrive in such a tough environment; dealing with boyfriends, bitch shields, bouncers, bartenders, DJs, loud music, drunk friends, distra read more

The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step formula, followed by a number of laws which govern it’s use for maximum effect.

It is designed to provide a smooth escalation, containing no significant jumps that may cause a woman to object. At the same time, the DEL contains no extraneous steps which are non-essential to the seduction process. read more

So, you've decided to change yourself for the better. You've read countless dating advice books, and you've tried numerous techniques and "magic bullets" to become more successful with women. Now, upon meeting a girl, you carefully watch her reactions to every word you say. You calibrate your "game" to how she behaves, and every muscle of y read more

In a club, it's more a game of keeping a girl isolated from other guys than it is actually picking them up.

When this happens, it's best to get rid of the obstacle quickly and keep your girl isolated with you.

Sometimes it can be enough just to say "Excuse me, buddy, we were having a conversation here..." then turning your back to the gu read more

As human beings, we all move towards that which is familiar. It’s a natural instinct to seek out familiar things because we are comfortable with them – be they people, places, or things. The same is true of feelings.

Feelings that are familiar give us a sense of security. Our brain tells us “I know this feeling! This is familiar. This is safe.” read more